Masturbation is one of the best and healthiest ways to care for yourself, and with stress running high this holiday season, who couldn’t use a little extra relaxation? Investment in self-care is essential, and treating your partner is a great way to spread the love around. This year, several sex tech companies are joining the Black Friday and Cyber Monday fray with deals that make this investment a little more accessible than usual.
Our picks for the best Black Friday sex toy deals were researched and tested by our Gear team for our Best Sex Toys for Every Body guide.
Updated November 28: We’ve tweaked prices and added a deal from Crave.
Sex Toy Deals
This little vibrator is one of our all-time faves. It’s been a top pick in our Sex Tech Guide since day one, in part because it’s adorable, but mostly because it’s a powerful, comfy-to-use, good-for-all-genitals vibrator and is approachable both in its low price and its simple, straightforward design. We even wrote a whole review about it.
Suction toys are a game-changer for people with vulvas. The toys use pulses of air to simulate the sucking sensation of skillful oral sex, stimulating the small erogenous areas like the clitoris or glans of a neo or natal penis. It’s kind of amazing, and they’re usually pretty expensive so finding a good one under $100 can be tough. It’s best for gentle to moderate intensity suction, and it’s not quite as powerful as other suction toys in our experience, but it’s still a good pick.
Everyone should use lube. No matter your genitals, gender identity, sexuality, or kinks, if you’re spending time with genitals you should have lube on hand. It’ll make everything so much better. For real. Water-based lubes are your best bet for everyday use. They’re water-soluble, so they won’t stain your sheets or clothes, and they’re usually made of body-safe aloe. Great for solo or partnered use! This is one of our favorites.
Dame’s sex toys all sport a similar sleek and approachable design, and you can see that here in the Arc vibrator. Gently curved with a soft bulbous end, it’s designed to provide rumbly, diffuse stimulation to the G-spot (but with a careful partner you could use it for the P-spot as well). It might be a bit big for some people, so make sure you take a look at the dimensions and compare it to an internal toy you already have and use.
Crave’s Vesper necklace is an adorable little bullet vibrator disguised as a pendant. It’s gorgeous and well-made, but it doesn’t quite pass as just a pendant if you look too close. Definitely more discreet than any of the other toys on this list though, perfect for travel and surprisingly powerful given its size.
Sex tech maker Maude is offering a blanket 20 percent off on all orders over $75 from Friday, November 26 through Sunday, November 28. Maude makes a couple of our favorite toys that we’ve featured on our best sex tech roundup, but it also stocks a number of other goodies we’ve tested and highly recommend. The Shine water-based lube, for instance, is my personal favorite lube, and there are also a number of intimate but not overtly sexy items as well like bath salts, massage oil—even a fragrance-free hand sanitizer spray that works great for cleaning your toys.
One of the original suction toys, the Womanizer Premium has been around a while. The name is unfortunately very gendered, but if that doesn’t bother you, it’s a solid pick for powerful suction. If the name is a sticking point, I’d recommend the Dame Aer instead.
The Poco is an adorable little vibrator with two powerful motors and a flexible body. It’s easy to bend into just the right position to hit your G-spot, or for external use in interesting positions. It’s small, discreet, and pairs with the MysteryVibe app so you can set up your own vibration patterns or give someone else control of it.
The Crescendo is the bigger sibling of the Poco. It features a similar but more flexible body and has a whopping six internal motors. Those motors can all be adjusted with the included app, giving you very granular control over your vibration intensity and rhythm. Mostly I ended up using the built-in vibration patterns because there are quite a few, and they’re all pretty good. Those motors give the Crescendo a very unique vibration profile too, it doesn’t just feel like it’s one powerful motor vibrating the whole toy but rather several smaller ones vibrating throughout the toy. This is one of our favorites and for good reason. It’s fully waterproof, so it’s a great pick for bath time.
The We-Vibe Touch is a modern take on the classic bullet vibrator. It’s soft, squishy, and has a contoured body that makes it easier to hold and maneuver. The tip is shaped to fit over just about any erogenous zone. It’s also waterproof and surprisingly quiet.
This one is another suction or air-pulse stimulator designed to simulate the sucking sensation of oral sex. The Melt is a small, discreet, and cute little toy. It’s contoured and fits well in your hand no matter the angle you’re using it from, and the open end is large enough to encircle the clitoris without touching it directly—a great choice if you or your partner are particularly sensitive. It also supports We-Vibe’s app, so you can control it remotely for some long-distance partner play.
This is a vibrator designed specifically for those of you who like rumbly, diffuse stimulation while lying on top of a vibrator. The Laya II is contoured and designed for this orientation, so it won’t poke you anywhere sensitive the way a standard vibrator might if you lie on top of it. It’s also on our best-of list.
We haven’t tried it ourselves yet, but this looks like a fun little kit for couples. It’s a boxed set of sex toys that includes a vibrator specifically designed for the penis and another vibrator designed to go around the penis but also stimulate a clitoris or neo penis. It also includes a few spicy bedroom games, a massage candle, and a cute little hair scrunchie.
This little toy is fun to use all on its own or as an accompaniment to any harness or strap. It fits right in the O-ring, and it’s great for anyone who isn’t looking for size. Small and approachable, great for all kinds of internal play.
Pulsators are another relatively new kind of toy. Shaped like traditional vibrators, they actually pulsate back and forth to simulate thrusting. It’s a new experience for many, but if you’re a fan, it’s hard to go back to standard internal vibrators. This one has a flared head to mimic the shape of a penis and features medium-to-high intensity levels.